Special Needs Cats – Aya, Mental And Emotional Needs Cat

Meet Aya, a kitty unlike any other, not because of her physical attributes but due to her being a mental and emotional needs cat. Since her youth, Aya's unpredictable behavior has presented challenges, many of which would have defeated most pet owners.

But what makes this high-energy kitty's story so compelling? Why have some people called her a "black diamond" in terms of personality and needs?

In this article, we'll journey through Aya's life, exploring the ups and downs, the trials and triumphs, and the extraordinary bond she shares with her human family. We'll discuss the reasons behind her unusual behavior and the innovative solutions that have helped her.

But we won't just talk about the problems; we'll reveal the lessons learned and the joy that an unconventional pet can bring into a home. Aya's story is more than a tale of a high-maintenance cat; it's a testament to love, patience, and the true spirit of companionship.

Join us as we delve into the intriguing world of Aya, the cat with a story you won't forget.

Aya's Unique Challenges: More Than Meets the Eye

Aya stands apart from other pets, not due to a physical limitation but because of unique emotional and mental health needs. From the tender age of just 8 months, she has faced intermittent issues with behavior that most would find frustrating, if not downright perplexing.

Inappropriate urination is not something we associate with an ordinary pet. Yet, for Aya, it became a defining challenge. What could cause such a phenomenon? Was it a matter of training, or perhaps something deeper?

I embarked on a relentless quest to understand and rectify this issue, following every piece of advice from veterinarians and online forums.

From altering her diet with prescription food to tweaking the number of litter boxes, their types, and ensuring impeccable cleanliness, no stone was left unturned.

But Aya's story is more than a tale of a puzzling habit. It's about the pursuit of understanding, empathy, and a connection that transcends mere pet ownership.

In the following sections, we will explore the complex tapestry of her behavior and the lessons that she has to teach us all.

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The Cost of Caring for Aya

The Investment in Bedding and Furnishing

Aya has a unique problem that's not only peculiar but also expensive. Over time, her care has cost me probably more than $1000. This cost has gone into cleaning or replacing bedding and furnishing. It's not an easy thing for many pet owners to bear.

I've had friends tell me outright they couldn't handle it. But I adopted Aya. She's not just any pet; she's part of the family. I knew she wouldn't be easy to rehome. And honestly, our bond goes beyond mere ownership.

The Journey from Japan to America: A New Perspective

Moving halfway around the world brought new insights into Aya's problems. In America, I met a vet who understood her.

Together, we concluded that Aya's "whizzing issues" were not a physical ailment but stress-induced. It was a revelation.

Finding the Right Solution: Beyond Medication

Medication like Prozac failed. Aya could not be fooled by disguising pills in liquid form. She saw through it. The challenge was real, and the answer seemed elusive.

But the solution that worked was simple: letting her be an indoor/outdoor cat. Aya is full of energy. Allowing her the freedom to roam and burn off that energy outdoors decreased her stress levels.

In the end, the journey with Aya taught us lessons in patience, empathy, and unconventional wisdom. It was never about finding a quick fix.

It was about understanding her unique needs and finding a way to make her comfortable and happy. That's what family does, and Aya is nothing less than family.

Aya's Road to Improvement: Navigating the Challenges

The Reality of Recovery

Recovery for Aya is a work in progress. I wouldn't say she's completely cured. There are times when the neighborhood bully cat teases her, and she reacts by peeing on the sofa.

However, the incidents have become less frequent, occurring just once every 3-4 months. Aya's change in behavior has been profound since she became an in/outdoor cat.

Some people may have strong opinions about this, and it's not an option for everyone. But for Aya, it's made a world of difference.

Unconventional Solutions

Dealing with Aya's unique needs requires unconventional solutions. I've covered my bed with a vinyl tarp when not in use, and it turns out she enjoys crawling in it.

Laminate fabric covers shield our sofas, and they seem to deter her. These might seem extreme to some, but they work for Aya.

A Black Diamond Personality

Our local shelter uses ski trail ratings for adoptable cats, helping potential owners gauge their personalities and needs. Aya would undoubtedly be a "black diamond."

She's not an ordinary pet. She nips, and she loves attention but only on her terms. Yet her distinct character, athletic prowess, and rich personality make her one of the most fascinating and loveable companions I've ever known.

Embracing Aya's Uniqueness

Aya's journey to improvement is filled with lessons, compromises, and a lot of love. She challenges the conventional ways of caring for a pet but rewards us with her unmatched personality.

Her road to recovery is not a straightforward one. But it's these challenges that make our bond with her so special. Embracing Aya's unique needs has turned what could be a burden into a rewarding experience that we wouldn't trade for anything.

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Written Contribution and Personal Story by Lyrajean

Lyrajean is a TCS member who reminds us that "Special Needs" can be mental and not just physical with the story of Aya, the neurotic calico.

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3 comments on “Special Needs Cats – Aya, Mental And Emotional Needs Cat

peaches123 December 31, 2014
I had a similar experience with my cat Beasley, 15 years gone but still in my heart.  He peed on the corner of a rug in our family room.  It was later found by my vet,(who made house calls before she got her office was set up) that he had both kidney and heart issues,  But however she prescribed Buspar, a human anti anxiety drug because he was so neurotic,  You are a very special person to put up with all the whizzing!  I would have given up on my BZ who ended up needing home sub Q fluids and Lasix.  He cost me thousands of dollars in vet bills, but he had a good quality of life.  It sounds like your cure for Aya which is awesome!
rockcat May 31, 2012
Aya is surely blessed to have you, a person who accepts and understands her. She is a beautiful kitty!
catspaw66 May 22, 2012
Good for you!!! She has a very caring, understanding person. I happen to like calicos a lot (I have four) and to see such a beautiful lady get the break she needed renews my faith in cat lovers everywhere.

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